Kids can’t tolerate feelings we don’t tolerate in them. When our kid gets frustrated and we immediately provide a solution for that feeling, we aren’t teaching them the number one skill they need to avoid entitlement. Entitlement is the intolerance of uncomfortable feelings. Kids who appear entitled act as if they “shouldn’t have” to experience things like frustration or disappointment. That might sound like, “I said I wanted that outfit; why won’t you just buy it for me?” or “Go get me a water